TOXIC RELIGION

You think Cocaine, Heroin, Marijuana and the likes are what is the biggest problem in the world when it comes to addiction? Try religion my friends Try religion. First of all, I will say this (Just in case someone will want to charge at my throat calling on to the heaviest thunder to strike me red), I am a Christian. I believe in God. I believe in the teachings of […]

LEGALIZED POLYGAMY?

Can a man love more than one woman equally at the same time? Mmmmmm…….. Maybe the question should be; can a woman happily and readily accept to share the love of her man with another woman? Okay, let me put it this way; by show of hands how many married women are willing to accept another woman come in as a second wife? I will start by stating this, humanity […]

CHILDREN THAT GROW UP IN ABUSIVE HOMES

  “I’m one of those children and at 60, it still haunts me.”- Anonymous Words that any child or adult that has had to grow up in an abusive home can relate to more than anyone else could care to understand. Words that if every parent out there really listened to, and took their time to think about, we could help save a lot of children the trauma, especially the […]

#BALANCE FOR BETTER

  Well, it is International Women’s day and I’m toasting to all the women across the world. You are special. You are beautiful. You are unique. You are precious. YOU ARE NOT LESS JUST BECAUSE OF YOUR SEX You are a QUEEN. I hope you are treated as one or at least, feel like one. Today we celebrate women’s achievements. We forge a more gender balanced world. We celebrate the […]

MAYBE WE NEED TO STOP AND ACTUALLY THINK….

You see, the greatest miracle that God has ever done for us is creating us with brains that are capable of thinking, logical reasoning and feeling of various sets of emotions depending on the environment, what we hear, see, touch, smell, experience… Creating us with a MIND. And this is the most generous and greatest miracle of all. This is POWERFUL. And sometimes when we don’t use this brain to […]

THE CULTURE OF SILENCE

  “I personally have tried to reason with elders (Village heads) to take some of these issues such as rape and abuse seriously as they are police cases but they flatly refuse to do so. They urge that we are a traditionally rich society that should do things the ancient way. But there is a feeling this is wrong because children and women who are naturally the most vulnerable members […]

HOW ABOUT WE GO BACK TO THE ATOM OF THE SOCIETY, FAMILY?

Family, The basic functional unit of any society. Like atoms, that come together to make that oxygen that is so refreshing and basically the reason we are alive or that carbon monoxide that slowly suffocates and kills you. Society is a product of families. We are all products of certain families. You think society is suffocating? Well, there is more stink in what is making the society I feel so […]

THE SPONSOR RIDDLE

  Promiscuity is deeply entrenched in our society today spear headed by our fathers in the name of sponsors. We keep hearing how the younger generation has no manners but there is a group of the older generation we don’t hear about who are the “brainpower” behind the scenes and  are also taking a lead role in matters promiscuity alongside their little beneficiaries, The “Sponsors”. Basically, the people funding this […]

THE SILENT VICTIM

  “I can remember vividly something my grandfather would say to us if we got upset or complained about something. He would say, Are you a man or a mouse?”…A tale of a man who was raped for years by a family friend but couldn’t talk about his experience to anyone because it is considered “unmanly” to complain or show your emotions and how you feel as a man. In […]

WELCOME BACK! AND A BIT OF RANTING…:)

It has been a tiny while on these ends!! I know it feels like the sun took its last gasp of beauty here but hey, it was just a sunset. And I’m back! I’m re-energized. I’m better. That time away was very much needed. Now, during that little break I have had thoughts about life. Like always…hehe. It’s what I do. Always trying to wrap my finger around this life […]